Which AI Girlfriend Sites Let You Create Your Own Character?
Pre-made characters are fine. But if you want someone who looks and acts exactly how you imagine, you need a platform that lets you create your own.
SweetDream AI gives you full control: design look, body, voice, and “wild personality” with no filters. Custom creation is available on the free tier—you can build a companion and chat with daily free messages before paying. Premium adds live chat, video call, and advanced image/video generation. So the builder isn’t locked behind a subscription; only the live and premium features are.
Candy AI is built around “create your own AI girlfriend.” The builder covers ethnicity, age, eyes, hair, body, personality, voice, and hobbies. You get 100+ pre-made characters too. A 7-day full-access trial lets you test both the roster and the builder. After that it’s subscription with tokens for chat, voice, images, and video.
Nectar AI is built for custom companions: girlfriend, boyfriend, or friend. You control personality, stories, visual appearance, voice, and mood. Free tier includes 1 custom companion, 10 generations/day, 15 messages/day. Paid tiers ($9.99–$34.99/mo, ~50% off yearly) scale up generations, photo and voice messages, personas, and video. The Nectar AI review has the full breakdown.
Romantic AI lets you build an AI girlfriend, boyfriend, or anime companion from a photo or template. You set appearance, conversation style, traits (caring, playful, empathic), and optional NSFW. Style can be photo-realistic or anime. Free to start; premium unlocks unlimited messages, romantic roleplay, custom characters, and unblurred spicy replies. Web plus iOS and Android.
SpicyChat AI focuses on unlimited character creation and a huge community library (100k+ characters). You define personality and backstory; it’s roleplay and storytelling oriented. Free tier = unlimited messages and unlimited character creation. So “create your own” is front and center and free—but it’s text/roleplay, not a classic “girlfriend app” with voice and images.
Muah AI offers custom companion creation with voice cloning and personality tuning. Free tier is limited; VIP from $9.99/month opens full image, voice, and video plus custom companions. Thousands of community characters are available too.
JOI AI emphasizes customizable virtual characters and digital celebrities. Premium ($19.99/mo) includes full customization, AI-generated images and videos, and advanced personality settings. Free tier has basic customization and community character access.
Secrets AI has a “Personas” feature: multiple identities with consistent backgrounds and preferences so each roleplay scenario stays coherent. Less “design from scratch” than “define who you’re playing as.”
Summary: For a full girlfriend-style builder (looks, voice, personality) and free-tier access, SweetDream and Candy lead. For deep roleplay and unlimited free character creation, SpicyChat. For photo-to-companion or anime + realism, Romantic AI. For voice cloning and all-in-one NSFW, Muah. For a full comparison, see our Compare table and platform reviews.